At Zubento
Rebecka : Hi tiwi have u ever felt in
love?
Tiwi : yes of course, If I am
not fall in love. I am not normal. The thing is how u manage it
Rebecka : you are absolutely right
Tiwi : I mean how you manage
your feeling
Rebecka : yes that’s correct
Tiwi : why?
Rebecka : no, I just wondering
Tiwi : hm…
Rebecka : how about if a women having sex
before marriage?
Tiwi : hm.. well its actually
taboo. But there are some students they having sex before marriage and
sometimes pregnant although they know it is forbidden in our religion (having
sex without marriage)
Rebecka : hmmm really?
Tiwi : yeah there are some
students in big cities and maybe outside university
Rebecka : actually if you are pregnant
while you are in the collage it will ruin all the things
Tiwi : and did you remember
the movie? The movie we watched in Pak Jun’s house with mas ahonk, ahim, adi,
and villagers? “Zainuddin and Hayati” the sinking of van der wijck
Rebecka : yeah,
Tiwi : see Zainuddin in the
movie said that “Pohon pisang tidak berbuah dua kali, pantang lelaki makan
sisa” which loosely translated “a banana tree will not produce fruit twice, the
real man will not accept a woman who had pregnant before marriage” although the
context in the movie hayati is a widower but it is saying for a woman who
pregnant before marriage
Rebecka : hm?
Tiwi : well it’s not fair
actually, while the man not get burden of shame and woman get all the burden of
shame because of they are having kid before they marriage. And woman pregnant
before marriage
Rebecka : yeah it’s not fair
Tiwi : aha, did you remember
when my ua said that if you decided to send your daughter to collage you have
to spend money more than send your son to collage because.
Rebecka : yeah, I remember, but why?
Tiwi : because.. daughter
will not depend their cost of living to her boyfriend. If she depends the cost
of her living to her boyfriend then her boyfriend will ask reply, the reply is
sometimes that sort of thing… I mean having sex (because it is common known
that if you are going steady with your girlfriend you Have to treat your
girlfriend and even drive her safely, drop her home and drop her to collage.
Some says that what boyfriend for”, said my collage)
Rebecka : aha. I see then now I
understand why did your ua say like that?.
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