TIWI HAVE U EVER FALLING IN LOVE?

At Zubento

Rebecka               : Hi tiwi have u ever felt in love?

Tiwi                      : yes of course, If I am not fall in love. I am not normal. The thing is how u manage it

Rebecka               : you are absolutely right

Tiwi                        : I mean how you manage your feeling

Rebecka               : yes that’s correct

Tiwi                        : why?

Rebecka               : no, I just wondering

Tiwi                        : hm…

Rebecka               : how about if a women having sex before marriage?

Tiwi                        : hm.. well its actually taboo. But there are some students they having sex before marriage and sometimes pregnant although they know it is forbidden in our religion (having sex without marriage)

Rebecka               : hmmm really?

Tiwi                        : yeah there are some students in big cities and maybe outside university

Rebecka               : actually if you are pregnant while you are in the collage it will ruin all the things

Tiwi                        : and did you remember the movie? The movie we watched in Pak Jun’s house with mas ahonk, ahim, adi, and villagers? “Zainuddin and Hayati” the sinking of van der wijck

Rebecka               : yeah,

Tiwi                        : see Zainuddin in the movie said that “Pohon pisang tidak berbuah dua kali, pantang lelaki makan sisa” which loosely translated “a banana tree will not produce fruit twice, the real man will not accept a woman who had pregnant before marriage” although the context in the movie hayati is a widower but it is saying for a woman who pregnant before marriage

Rebecka               : hm?

Tiwi                        : well it’s not fair actually, while the man not get burden of shame and woman get all the burden of shame because of they are having kid before they marriage. And woman pregnant before marriage

Rebecka               : yeah it’s not fair

Tiwi                        : aha, did you remember when my ua said that if you decided to send your daughter to collage you have to spend money more than send your son to collage because.

Rebecka               : yeah, I remember, but why?

Tiwi                        : because.. daughter will not depend their cost of living to her boyfriend. If she depends the cost of her living to her boyfriend then her boyfriend will ask reply, the reply is sometimes that sort of thing… I mean having sex (because it is common known that if you are going steady with your girlfriend you Have to treat your girlfriend and even drive her safely, drop her home and drop her to collage. Some says that what boyfriend for”, said my collage)

Rebecka               : aha. I see then now I understand why did your ua say like that?.