dan adakah yang lebih tabah dari hujan bulan juni?
"potongan puisi karya sapardi djoko damono"
this is the piece of poet from sapardi djoko damono
some poet give us inspiration to think and re-think that poetry is an alternative to express our feeling and our oppinion concerning phenomena, event, and one's life
merriage is still a best way to proof the sencerity man's feeling and intention to a woman. a man endure his life to choose that women to be his friend ever. He never stop to run after the woman. Untill he can ask permission to woman's father.
then a man could be seen from the way he treat his mom, sister and relatives.
a woman fantasy about marriage quite different to man. some women hope that her marriage held at the best place and good timing. some other just let it flows.
but what is really needed by women nowadays is not only a promise but proof
it is not hard, yet it still simple
kind of "we perceived other as human being so a process is really important"
a process to be a good listener, a process to be a good partner for a better and worse.
because marriage is not only concerning a feeling to be saved but also how do we can convince him/her that we can save with him/her
save in term of comfortable, save in term of shelter, save in term of mind, save in term of money and budgeting, and last but not least save in term of ad-ddiin according to islam sunny
if a man can convince her fiance concerning these stuff throught his attitude, his action and view.
then a father will not worry to left her little princess to that man. then he will hope, hope u will grow old with my daughter as I had done.
mau ma bobok
besok lagi
to day so hard, and night kisses my exhausted body
wish u all the best
wassalam
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